When you divorce your spouse, and the court enters an order requiring one parent to pay child support to the other, it can make a huge difference for a custodial parent struggling to make ends meet. But what happens when the parent ordered to make the child support payments fails to send the money? If you are facing this situation, it is essential to contact an experienced family law attorney.

Child Support Obligations

Paying child support is a legal obligation that the court imposes on one parent to pay the other to financially support their child. The money should be used to ensure the child’s needs are met, including paying for expenses such as housing, education, and other necessary living costs.

Why Your Ex Fails to Pay Child Support

There are a variety of reasons why your ex may stop making child support payments, but some of the most common include:

• Financial Difficulties: When your ex encounters an unexpected hardship such as loss of a job, medical expenses, or other unforeseen costs, child support may not be a feasible payment. If this is your ex’s situation, it is his/her responsibility to inform the court and request a modification of the court order or agreement.
• Distance: If one spouse moves away and does not spend quality time with the child, it can impact the feeling of urgency of paying child support. If your ex is not located physically near your child, take steps to schedule calls, video chats, and other ways to keep the relationship strong.
• Disagreements Over Payments: If a parent disagrees with the amount of support or how the money is being spent, it can lead to missed child support payments. It is important for both parents to remember that child support payments are meant to be used for the child.
• Avoidance: If a parent feels disconnected from the child, they may avoid their legal responsibilities. Many people do not want to confront uncomfortable situations, so they tend to avoid them.

What Can I Do if My Ex Does Not Pay?

The family law attorneys at Babbit, Mitchell & Ogle have vast experience in addressing child support issues, especially when one parent fails to pay their required child support payments. If your ex intentionally takes action to reduce his/her support payments, such as quitting their job or hiding income, it is critical to work with a knowledgeable lawyer.

How Can I Improve my Case?

There are several ways you can prepare for a child support dispute. First, keep records of all missed child support payments. This includes bank records, emails, texts, and any other relevant documentation. Second, review your court order or agreement to confirm you fully understand the payment amounts, due dates, and all other related information. Third, when a payment is missed, consider resolving the issue outside of court. This involves open communication and potentially working with a mediator. Finally, contact a family law attorney to proceed with the next steps.

Contact Babbit, Mitchell & Ogle Today

Every family law matter is unique but understanding what Oklahoma courts consider in your case is critical. The best interest of the child is always the priority. The law requires both parents to financially support their children. If your ex is failing to pay court-ordered child support, we can help.

If you are looking for a family law attorney, contact BMO Law for a consultation. We aggressively fight on behalf of our clients. There are long-term implications for those affected by a family law case, and we are here to protect your best interests. Call us at (405) 692-7676 to schedule your appointment.

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